My favorite outfits right now are my latex cat suits. As lingerie would make a housewife feel sexy, a leather corset and boots would help a dominatrix get into the headspace of her role. I feel it helps people get into their sexy mode. Style is a huge aspect of the BDSM community. How important is style within the fetish community? And perhaps most importantly, what is your favorite piece of clothing you either own or have worn? The BDSM lifestyle seems to be covered in lace, latex, or leather. That being said, I still expect them to get down on their knees and kiss the ground I walk on. I have taken vacations with my subs, and am even the beneficiary on one of their estates. Some of them have met my parents and attended holiday dinners, while others are on payroll or have slept in my bed. I have had personal subs for years and years. My work and personal life all bleed together. Does your work life ever bleed into your personal life? The work you do seems to be extremely personal and intense. I enjoy figuring out what makes a new partner tick, pushing their buttons, their likes and dislikes. In fact, I’ve played with hundreds of different people. I do feel extremely confident with my extensive knowledge of fetish play. When I am in front of the camera, I try to have a good time and give my play partner a great experience as well. How do you feel when you’re with a client, shooting a scene, or simply exercising your knowledge of fetish play? Do you feel empowered or is it merely a job? Some people just don’t get what I do, and that is fine. A lot of guys feel better giving up their power to a woman, even if it is only for a short time. I think men feel pressure everyday to be a “MAN,” always in control. It felt great to be in the drivers seat taking a man sexually. The first time I took a man with a strap-on it was a real thrill. I am definitely not a man hater, but I do enjoy flipping the power role on men. How do you think this distorted stereotype arose, and also, what to you have to say to those who believe it to be true? Society seems to perceive the “dominatrix” as a female who hates men. There are no set rules on your path to kinky sex, do whatever you want. I think people should do what makes them happy. If the shoe was on the other foot it would seem weird. I do not feel that one needs to inhabit both roles to be good at one or the other. Personally I have never identified with the submissive role. Do you think it’s necessary to inhabit both roles? Most of the best dommes have experienced being a submissive at one point or another. I actually found it rather odd that more women didn’t enjoy what I loved so much. Submissive men were immediately attracted to my enthusiasm for humiliation and punishment. I enjoyed walking men on all fours by a collar and leash or spitting on their face. Other girls wouldn’t even entertain the idea I never had a problem with tying guys up and smacking them around. Upon stumbling into the adult industry, I started being confronted by weird fetishes and kinks. I have always demanded to be treated well by male counterparts. I’d think, “Why doesn’t he get his lazy ass up and make dinner once in a while?” I viewed her as weak, I knew then I never wanted to be placed in that stereotypical female role of a homemaker.īoyfriends were always set straight early on. I can recall being eleven or twelve and watching my aunt cook and clean for her husband after a full day of work herself. What was your path to becoming the woman you are today? I couldn’t tell you a defining moment when “Lexi Sindel” was born the name just came with the evolution of me.Įvery professional dominatrix has a different story. Most of my classmates wouldn’t be surprised by what I’m doing now. My childhood was nice, and I was always involved in various activities in school. Before my career took off as a Domme, I held jobs in the sales and marketing fields. I have always had interest in art and design. The website showcases women turning the tables on men sexually, my favorite thing to do!īefore I entered the adult realm I was going to school studying art. I own the website of which I am very proud. Well, I am Lexi Sindel, a professional dominatrix and smut peddler extraordinaire. Who is Lexi Sindel and who were you before she was born? But it’s in this installment of IN DEEP that our grrl learns about a dominatrix’s intricate path towards a delicious destiny of whips and strap-ons. Our beloved Scarlett Stone is neck deep in discussion with professional kink expert and “smut peddler,” Lexi Sindel! A sex columnist herself, Scarlett knows a thing or two about BDSM and the complexities that accompany any fetish play.
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